守望初春的动人之处，是他麻木冷漠般的无助，是他挣脱无助、那些感受到激情、亲密、欣喜和希望的瞬间，是他一步步在定义自己是谁以及该往哪里去时，如普通人一样的纠结、退缩和坚定。
Not
by Erin Hanson
You are not your age, nor the size of clothes you wear,
You are not a weight, or the color of your hair.
You are not your name, or the dimples in your cheeks.
You are all the books you read, and all the words you speak.
You are your croaky morning voice, and the smiles you try to hide.
You’re the sweetness in your laughter, and every tear you’ve cried.
You’re the songs you sing so loudly when you know you’re all alone.
You’re the places that you’ve been to, and the one that you call home.
You’re the things that you believe in, and the people whom you love.
You’re the photos in your bedroom, and the future you dream of.
You’re made of so much beauty, but it seems that you forgot
When you decided that you were defined by all the things you’re not.
观影心得
守望初春的动人之处，是他麻木冷漠般的无助，是他挣脱无助、那些感受到激情、亲密、欣喜和希望的瞬间，是他一步步在定义自己是谁以及该往哪里去时，如普通人一样的纠结、退缩和坚定。 Not by Erin Hanson You are not your age, nor the size of clothes you wear, You are not a weight, or the color of your hair. You are not your name, or the dimples in your cheeks. You are all the books you read, and all the words you speak. You are your croaky morning voice, and the smiles you try to hide. You’re the sweetness in your laughter, and every tear you’ve cried. You’re the songs you sing so loudly when you know you’re all alone. You’re the places that you’ve been to, and the one that you call home. You’re the things that you believe in, and the people whom you love. You’re the photos in your bedroom, and the future you dream of. You’re made of so much beauty, but it seems that you forgot When you decided that you were defined by all the things you’re not.
年少时读这部剧，觉得斯嘉丽勇敢，无畏，不惧怕世俗眼光，敢冲敢闯，目标第一，觉得斯嘉丽是榜样。 中年重读这部剧，觉得斯嘉丽自私，鲁莽，无知，损人利己，为达目的不择手段，优点明显，缺点也特别明显。 反而觉得梅兰妮和瑞特深得人心。梅兰妮瘦小的身躯中藏着巨大的能量，善良，博学，懂得感恩；瑞特聪明睿智又独特，为爱情心甘情愿付出一切，看清后也敢于离开。 书还是那部剧，只是追剧的年龄和阅历不同，读出了不一样的感悟。
守望初春 谁是天使 谁是魔鬼 ？ 宗教更像是信仰的溢价∞ 科学更像是论证的无穷∞
对父母，儿子，弟弟的爱支撑华子白手起家，爱果然是幸福的来源，强大的动力。